Friends don't let friends dial drunk

Sometimes, you wake up feeling so well-liked, so blessed and so at peace with the world.

Other times you wake up feeling very rant-ish, pissed and annoyed.

These are one of those times.

I am thinking of two things that annoy me now.

From the picture above, you can guess the first. Such a pity I didn't buy that particular pencil case I wanted in KL last year. If I did, I'd go around sticking my tongue out at 'em jerky men while shoving the pencil case under their noses.

Now, now. Don't get me wrong. I am not a feminist and will not be turning to the *ehem, other side of the gate anytime time soon. No worries.

I am merely talking about a population of MEN that only decide to buddy-wuddy with you when a NEED occurs. *cue for audience to AHHH. Now, I don't know how many people out there face this situation. And for those who do and extremely HATE it, woot~ Cheers to you.

Other times, they'd only look for you to be their go-fer or middleman especially when they dig this chick who happens to be your friend and hence, they'd decide to bombard you with questions when the chick's not picking up his calls, replying his smses, if she looks so s-a-a-ad in school and yadayadayada. Then, they'd give you the 3rd degree so that you'll spill every single detail about her. Next, they'd ORDER you to 'help' them score with this girl of their dream and boo-yah, when they're together, you'd be the Forgotten One and can just stand at the corner with your front facing the wall. Of course, when a situation happens between the man and his new-found girlfriend, you'd suddenly be his no. 1 friend again and he'd be sobbing and hemming and hawwing about his problems via sms, phone, msn or whatever terms necessary. You, of course, being a female and trying to be all understanding and comforter-ish, will actually WASTE time comforting him and trying to help patch things up between him and his boo.

Next thing you know, you're the Forgotten One again and hence, back to facing that blank wall.

You know, it wouldn't have been so bad IF the guy still treated you the same after being attached and all because, What's the difference between a relationship with your friends after an attachment? Before people actually bombard me about my lack of knowledge in relationships since I've never been in one, I'd like to say that it's always better to strike a balance between love and friendship, meaning you'd still want to spend time with your friends, apart from your partner. Gah, if you understand, nod your head and say AHH. If you don't, then pretend you do.

Apart from that, lying MEN are also very very unacceptable. Like when they want you to look like fools in front of everyone else. Or when they want attention. Or when they are hiding something. If these MEN think it's a very handsome thing to do, it ain't cos no.1, lying is a sin and no.2, it makes them so untrustable.

Why am I blogging about such an 'old' topic which 90% of other bloggers have blogged about? This is because I have been facing such situations these days which has made me reconsider some things about the relationship with the opposite sex.

For male blog readers who are my friends or whatever, if you think those paragraphs above is about you, then it is. If not, then it's not. I am not and will not be naming names so it's all up to your guilty conscience to guide you.

Woo.

Before the next order of business, allow me to share with you a short video. It's a part of the movie 'Hot Chick' and is called the Boy Song.

Have been downloading some Plain White T's songs these pass few days.

Some of the lyrics really got me thinking. Like for the song 'What If''. Do ALL the people whom I consider friends actually like me for me? Goodness knows how many times I've been backstabbed and all. I don't know really cos word about this just doesn't go around. Hmm. And from the song 'Friends don't let friends dial drunk', how many people actually like hanging out or conversing with me and how many just look for me when their bored? Or when they need something?

And they say love's complicated. I think relationships are pretty much the same.

Friends don't let friends dial drunk. Or do they? Hmm.

Shopping for blogskins now. Till then~